Males: Natural Bargain Hunters.
The stark polarity between the bonding methods exercised by the sexes en masse results in a net social and emotional loss for females.
Note: read the following within a heteronormative context.
Men are natural hunters they say.
The truth is, the only title men live up to is not hunter, nor provider, nor protector but… Bargain Hunter.
The male’s default setting is “how little can I give to get the most possible out of a situation”
And this is their approach off the bat when it comes to women.
Human nature you might say, but there are two types of humans - male and female humans. And the female human’s default setting differentiates itself entirely in the realm of socialization and bonding.
Women’s default setting is reciprocity.
In short:
I’ll give what I want to get.
Sound fair and just? Yes, indeed it does. Because women are good humans.
This explains why women, to their own detriment, can be so giving off the bat.
And I say tot heir detriment because if you’re a female human and you’re of the heterosexual persuasion, that means you are doomed to experience the insufficient, or blatantly absent, reciprocation of your kindness at the hands of a receptive, yet, complacent, male. As, their nature is egregiously attuned to bargaining.
In short:
I’ll take what’s given and feel no obligation to return the favor.
Sound callous and selfish? Yes, indeed it does, because it is.
Before the kind ones amongst us feel disheartened or foolish, a reminder that generosity in and of itself is never inherently wrong, women’s intentions are actually pure, but are perceived poorly and thus, result in them being treated poorly.
The polar nature of men and women, if not monitored and managed, will leave women ruined while men walk away with benefits.
So what does this teach women?
What is the best way for women to avoid being emotionally and socially and even physically looted?
Women must give nothing but DEMANDS from the very beginning of their courtships with men.
It truly is the only way to ensure a man stays in line and does not deviate into degenerate behavior at your expense
The men who had ill intentions will not be able to handle your requests and will leave and cease wasting your time.
Embrace the efficient filtering process that preserves your soul.
Warm regards,
Carlina